What exactly makes someone's love turn into hatred? What must someone do to make you feel that way? The answers are not always clear but if I had to guess I would say it's probably the way the other person treats you.
You can't possibly love someone that treats you like total crap because eventually it will take a toll on the relationship. Love has to thrive like everything else, it has to be nurtured and maintained. If one half or both don't do that, it will fail.
Kindness, respect, trust, and faith in one another has to be a given. You can't lie, cheat, and abuse each other. It simply doesn't work. After a while, it becomes clear that the one lying, cheating, and abusing simply doesn't care. How unfortunate for them. To have someone love you should mean the world to you. Love doesn't come easy, in fact, it's hard to truly put yourself out there for someone to love you in the first place. So why would someone ultimately destroy that?
People today think that love is a game. They tell people what they want to hear instead of being honest. Honesty in a relationship is key, it's the most valuable asset you can have. If you have a partner that can't trust you, you have nothing. The sad part is, someone is going to end up alone. Not because they want to but because they can't continue to live that life anymore. It becomes overwhelming to try to decipher the truth all the time.
What about abuse? Mental/physical, it doesn't matter. It's uncalled for. It only brings sorrow, scars, and hate. Why would anyone want someone to hate them? If you ever feel the need to abuse someone, leave them first. I'm sure many would rather have a broken heart than a world of scars.
Respect? It goes along with everything else. You want it, give it. It's that simple. People can't respect liars, cheaters, and abusers.
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